There's no question that the wedding day is wonderful, but it definitely comes with some stress and anxiety. If you're a bride, mother of the bride, or a bridesmaid, you might have some questions about handbag and phone etiquette. Knowing this etiquette will alleviate some stress so you can fully enjoy the special day! So, should a bride have a handbag? Based on experience, we brought you the answer.
It's a good idea for a bride to have a handbag or clutch. However, it's usually best for the bride to set it somewhere before walking down the aisle.
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If you still have some lingering questions, don't worry. In this guide, we'll tell you all you need to know so you can approach the wedding day with confidence.
Does A Bride Need A Clutch?
It's a great idea for a bride to have a clutch on the wedding day. Whether you keep it close by or have it in a designated spot, it's a helpful item to have. Find a stylish and totally chic one that complements your wedding day attire. You may even want to include it in some of your wedding day photos.
Chic Wedding Day Clutch
It is important to note that it's best to leave the clutch behind while walking down the aisle. There will already be a bridal bouquet in your hands, so there's no need to add anything else. This makes it easier to be in the moment and focus on the ceremony as well.
As soon as the ceremony is over, feel free to grab the clutch or place it by your spot at the table in the reception area. Keeping it at the table may prove to be the best spot for it.
What Should A Bride Have In Her Handbag?
There are a few items that we think every bride should have on hand. We'll talk more about them below.
Lip Balm Or Lipstick
As the bride, you want your lips to look pristine all night long. Inevitably, your lip color will begin to fade throughout the festivities. Having lip balm or lipstick nearby is the perfect solution to freshen up and keep color on your lips all night long.
Moisturizing Lip Balm
Face Powder Or Blotting Paper
Make sure your makeup stays on and sweat is blotted off by using these two items. Since you'll be taking pictures throughout the evening, these items can ensure that your face doesn't have a shiny sheen from all the activities going on.
Gum Or Mints
Nobody wants to have bad breath, especially on this special day! During the reception, the bride and groom will be making their way around the room talking to all their guests. Bad breath is the last thing you want to have. Gum or mints is a quick way to ensure you have fresh breath.
Always stay looking your best. Having a mirror easily accessible gives you a great way to check that everything is in place throughout the evening. Effortlessly check your smile after eating and reapplying lipstick, too.
Bridal Party Compact Mirrors
If you have been wearing heels during the ceremony and picture time, your feet may start to hurt as the evening goes on. No bride should have to go through the entire event with hurting feet. Slipping on a pair of stylish flat shoes ensures comfort and optimal mobility so you can continue dancing and enjoying your time with your friends and family.
Foldable Rhinestone Ballet Flats
Happy tears are inevitable over the course of this emotional day. Keeping a package of travel tissues closeby is the best solution for wiping tears and making sure your makeup doesn't run.
Wedding Day Tissues
Hopefully, you won't have to employ these pins, but they're helpful if you encounter any dress mishaps. You can quickly remedy a wardrobe malfunction with safety pins.
Safety Pin Variety
Stain Removal Pen
Accidents happen! Be prepared for if something happens like a drink spill or a food tumble. It seems a bit daunting to keep a white wedding dress pristine all day long, so keeping a stain remover pen close by helps.
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Does The Mother Of The Bride Carry A Purse?
It's totally up to the mother of the bride (and maybe the bride, too) if she wants to carry a purse. A smaller cross-body style purse or clutch is optimal for this occasion. Carrying around something big and bulky is not only unattractive but also difficult to lug around.
Typically, the mother of the bride will walk down the aisle with a brother or other male family member, so she'll already be walking down the aisle, arms linked with someone. Carrying a purse would be impractical. She could leave a small purse or clutch already sitting on her chair so the process is hassle-free.
Classy, Flattering Clutch
There are plenty of trendy styles of small purses and clutches that would look appropriate for the occasion. So make sure she has picked out a cute one to bring with her to the occasion. The mother of the bride can also help her daughter by having essentials available in her handbag.
What Do You Do With Your Phone On Your Wedding Day?
One of the absolute best ways to ensure you are fully present and enjoy the moment is by keeping your phone out of reach and out of sight. You have a wedding photographer to document the magical day after all!
Maybe not having your phone worries you in the off chance of an emergency occurring or someone needing to get ahold of you. In order to remedy this worry, designate your maid of honor or another bridesmaid to hold onto your phone for you. Having a trusted gal pal should alleviate any worry. She'll be able to monitor your phone and make sure the evening goes on seamlessly, leaving you with nothing to worry about.
What Do Bridesmaids Do With Their Phones?
Bridesmaids have it a bit easier when it comes to phones. Of course, they'll be present and want to constantly be by their bride's side, but there's more flexibility when it comes to their phones.
During the ceremony, bridesmaids should leave their phones in the bridal suite or in the reception area by their place setting. Phones in pockets or out in the open are distracting and take away the focus from the bride and groom.
When the ceremony is over, it's okay for bridesmaids to retrieve their phones. They can even help document little moments surrounding the wedding events and take candid photos.
Another bridesmaid attire trend is having pockets in the dress! Dresses with pockets are revolutionary, and everyone is sure to love them. Having pockets as a bridesmaid is a huge bonus and is the perfect way to tuck a phone away while on the dance floor.
We hope this guide helped answer your questions and that you feel confident and less stressed as you head into your wedding day! Before you go, make sure to check out these other amazing style guides: